Believe in Your Value and Worth

About six months ago, I wandered into the world of public speaking.  It wasn’t a planned career shift, but an invitation to stand on a very big stage, that launched the new adventure.  Yet despite the warm invitation from a most reputable brand, never in a life so fueled by the guiding principle “fake it … Read more

The Worst Advice

It’s Graduation Season or, as I like to call it, Trite Advice Season. Beating out, by a nose, blissfully ignorant platitudes such as the ever-recycled, “Do what you love, and you’ll never work a day in your life!” we get the world’s worst advice in the history of worst advice: “Follow your passion!” “Follow your … Read more

Force is a Club, Power is a Scalpel

Force: (n) strength or power exerted upon an object; physical coercion; violence; intensity Power: (n) the ability to do or act; capability of doing or accomplishing something Energy: (n) the capacity for vigorous activity; available power Leverage: (n) the mechanical advantage or power gained by using a lever, a rigid bar that pivots about one … Read more

How to Kill Psychic Vampires and Toxic Relationships

Look at your to-do list. Look at your calendar. Now, think about your personal or professional goals for today, this week, this quarter, or even this year. How much alignment is there between the way you spend your time and the goals you’ve set for yourself to achieve? My guess is: not a lot. And … Read more

Mentors vs. Champions

Mentors vs. Champions Give me a show of hands: how many of you have mentors?  Lots?  Peachy. Now, give me another show of hands: how many of you have champions?  What?  None?  We gotta fix that.  STAT. Mentors offer support, they tell you stories, they pass along wisdom.  They teach you things. They are terrific. … Read more

TEDx – “The Thing” That Scared Me Most

Driving my 8th grader home from school one day, I received a call from a friend who happens to be the executive producer of TEDxCambridge.  Knowing she was in a bit of a career transition — one that I had energetically encouraged — I felt the responsibility to take the call to make sure everything … Read more

I’m Not Fierce

I like to own the stage.  I channel my inner showman, and turn on the razzle dazzle.  I’m really one jazz-hand number away from selling tickets.  And, inevitably, whether in a public arena where I’m teaching leadership, or in a quiet coffee mentoring meeting, that stage persona always leads to the same question. “When did … Read more