Your Calling Doesn’t Have To Be Holy

Army Captain Joshua Mantz was dead, shot and killed by a sniper bullet in Baghdad. Until he wasn’t. He flatlined for fifteen full minutes, while medics pounded on his chest, shocked his heart, pumped him full of do-or-die drugs. And then—somehow—he came back. Alive. Alert. Brain intact. But with a burning question that wouldn’t let … Read more

The Purpose Fallacy

“Do your job, make your money, and volunteer on the side,” they advised. “Get your purpose outside of work,” they counseled. Once we’ve gotten out of the passion trap, we muck about in the other long-held college career center trope, where one conflates consonance with purpose, having a higher calling, of doing service, of prioritizing … Read more

Four Words to Ban from Your Life

There are four simple words that are ruining your life. Four simple words, seemingly meaningless when uttered as if they didn’t have the power to stop time and kill dreams. They are comfort coma-inducing as they innocently usher you down the path of procrastination justification. Four simple words: “I’ll be happy when…” Screw that. Why wait … Read more