Lazy? Ungrateful? Broken? Nope.

What if the real reason you feel stuck isn’t because you’re lazy or ungrateful or broken—but because you don’t feel in control? Control isn’t about being the boss. It’s about having agency. About owning your choices, your work, your results. About knowing that the way you spend your time is actually adding up to the … Read more

That’s Ms. Jackson, if you’re nasty

Picture me, dancing around my office, singing, “That’s Ms. Jackson, if you’re nasty.” Yes, my friends, we’re talking about control. (And, go ahead, play this little ditty while you read on… Ms. Jackson would want it that way.) This time of year, control feels like the ultimate luxury. Between the wild pace of holiday commitments, … Read more